Many issues playing multi lan and single player

[Frustrated]

Just played multiplayer lan ALL DAY LONG with a friend.
Have also played many hours single player skirmish....
These are things that we found out the hard way, hence my username:

Trying not to be rude BUT PLEASE LOOKUP THE WORD "EASY".
Enemy tanks are KILLING our tanks with ONE SHOT every time!!!! GRRRR
Also, does the enemy ALWAYS have to be well setup and "dug in" for EVERY MISSION?!?! They all seem to have eagle eye shots as well...

Ordering troops,tanks,etc is being given to the "player with the least" GRRRR
They should go to the player who ORDERED THEM! (trying to FIND THEM and then switch them is a very large pain in the youknowwhat!!!!!)

When your squad is hit by a explosion, or just sending them somewhere, they all become "unselected" ?!?!
So trying to "re-select" them quickly to run away is difficult!

Getting a "selected tank" to fire on a target I choose, works sometimes and sometimes not, many times the tank will just aim at the target and not fire?

The range and aiming capability of the heavy machine gun is extremely excessive. Enemies aim it like a computer controlled sentry gun.
(ya ya I know it IS a computer, but arent they "supposed to be human AI"?)
Also the enemy seems to have extra armor, they are hard to kill!?!?
Arent they just standing out in the open on that thing....yes they are!

The detail level in the game is great, like taking ammo,mess kits, toilette paper from dead soldiers, storing weapons and ammo in vehicles, trading smoke packs with each other, BUT who the "heck" has time for that when you are being bombarded by soldiers and tanks every second of the mission?!?! You can make soldiers re-load their guns....when?

Aparantly tanks can run out of gas....LOL HAHAHA
Mine NEVER last that long on EASY EASY EASY.....oops sorry,seriously.

Speaking of tanks, repairing them takes how long....10-20 minutes?!?!?
Makes that pretty much unusable. Quicker to just order a new one.
Also if a guy thats repairing is interupted or has to move out of the way of something driving past, he does NOT continue repairing, he just stands there?!?! Repair meter?, damage meter? would be nice. Can't tell when it will be repaired, too busy to babysit the repair guy....

Speaking of "just stands there", many times selected soldiers will not respond to any commands. Is he\them awol, can I shoot he\them, I would like to!

Many times the mouse gets stuck in a runaway mode and moves the whole screen quickly to the opposite side of where it is!?!?
Happened to me and my friend, different hardware....

I really love to play this game (why else would I type all this!) but it is waay too complicated and waay too hard on ...wait for it.....easy.
I am sure it turns off alot of people who just want to have fun without studying a manual and learning a million key commands!
Is there anything you can do about it? please please please

Thanks for this game and very sorry for my "frustrated" rant!

FR