Would switch wife, but kids too darn good

[Ryastar]

In my first game, i was loyal to my first and only wife, Feanora (i was a mage, so the +int was too good to pass up). So, for my second game, this time as a warrior, i decided to be less faithful, try out the other wives, and adapt my wife to the army i want to use. I didn't find any worthwhile matches until the dwarven lands, where i married Gerda (i REALLY like giants and cannoneers for the midgame). I figured that the morale for my giants and cannoneers would do for now, but the slots sucked for the gear i had (random complaint: i have five, count 'em, five, artifacts that i want to be using (ale, scope, snake king ring(i'm using royal snakes still), pain skull (not quite death yet) and intellect ring) but only one artifact slot, sigh). Anyways, so i was looking forward to either neoka or the demoness (the choice would depend on if i find any more good weapons, i have some ok weapons, but no great ones), except that GErda produced some amazing children. They give me +3 attack, +20% def, +10 leadership and +5% leadership. I can't give that up. i already had over 10000 leadership, so that gave me more than 2000 leadership, just from those babies! And i t will only increase! Also, i get one bonus defence for every 5, and a nice bonus to attack!

I must ask you all: would you switch wives?

And has anyone else faced this dilemma?