No need to apologize, it's all good, I didn't take it as being aggressive.
I think that the "secrecy" aspect to development can frustrate people hence the constant barrage of threads and posts saying "are we there yet?".
Until you've had some involvement in the process it can seem like they're doing nothing and only sending out notices every Friday say we're still working on it.
It's all about patience and ... GOOD DISTRACTION