Thx Bliss, still in idiot mode here...
I have the full game installed on the box now i did the -server launch option and fired the game up and got the DOS box saying "failed to load steam service
I then typed in f bkhz.cmd and pressed enter but its saying it cant find the file.
The OS on the box is Windows 2008 so i dont know if that make a difference to the location of the files :S
I created the .cmd file with this content
missLoad missions/Multi/Dogfight/Blue vs Red - Isles of Doom.mis
battle start
and also tried it with the difficulty settings
missLoad missions/Multi/Dogfight/Blue vs Red - Isles of Doom.mis
battle start
difficulty AntropomorphicControl 0
difficulty ComplexEManagement 0
difficulty TorqueGyroEffects
difficulty EngineTemperatureEffects 0
difficulty FlutterEffects 1
difficulty WindTurbulence 1
difficulty StallSpins 1
difficulty Vulnerabilty 1
difficulty BlackoutsRedouts 1
difficulty Realisticgunnery 1
difficulty RealisticBombing 1
difficulty LimitedAmmo 1
difficulty LimitedFuel 1
difficulty CockpitAlwaysOn 1
difficulty NoOutsideViews 0
difficulty HeadShake 0
difficulty NoIcons 1
difficulty NoPadlock 0
difficulty Clouds 1
difficulty TakeoffLanding 1
difficulty RealisticLandings 1
difficulty NoMapIcons 0
difficulty NoMinimapPath 1
difficulty NoAutopilot 1
difficulty NoReplacementPlace 0
difficulty NoReplacement 0
difficulty NoSelect 0
difficulty NoReplacementArmy 0
difficulty NoSelectArmy 0
difficulty NoCreate 0
im missing something here i guess, anymore infos would be great