So true on so many levels. We all have our pet peeves and there are a whole lot of valid complaints by players, openly discussing them is not the problem.
The problem is that they are stretched out of proportion more often than not, turning valid issues of varying importance into a multitude of false life or death dilemmas, with each single feature being touted as the most important thing ever, often by the same persons who are then naturally contradicting themselves: if issue A is the #1 priority then issue B can't be the #1 priority too, but there's a whole lot of people who act like it's possible to have a dozen issues share the #1 spot
Just like a folk saying in my native language goes, turning a single hair into a rope